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5 reasons why loneliness “haunts” women

Whether they admit it or not, all women want a life partner. Someone who can offer them protection, affection…, love! Even you want to get married. If you were to say this out loud – even if only in your mind – it may seem that it sounds desperate, and you are not like this, or anyway…you wouldn’t admit it! Here are the most frequent reasons for women’s loneliness.

1. You are sort of…bitchy

Americans call it “bitch”. Meaning that you’re always cranky and angry. As the saying goes…”a damned woman!” Your intelligence could be set at high values in comparison to those around you, but instead of using this in your favour, you have turned it into a weapon, and men perceive you as aggressive. And they don’t really want something like that next to them. If you did a brief investigation among the male persons around you, you would find out that most of them want to have beside them a nice and charming person, not at all one always with a frown, ironic and difficult to please. Thus, if you want a long-term relationship, learn how to be more compliant and smiling.

2. You’re superficial

Don’t lie! We all know that there was at least one moment in your life when you dreamt about your prince charming arriving on a white horse…the bad side is that some women want this both in their teen years and during adulthood, and some even risk remaining single forever because of this. Unfortunately, there are just a few tall, handsome, wealthy rich men left, who can also cook. So, maybe it’s time for you to lower your standards a bit, to look at the character of the people around you more, and when you’re looking for your better half, look more after a “harmonious package”. And we refer here to qualities…

3. You’re a bit easy

If you are a good-looking woman, it’s cool to be successful wherever you’re going, to pick up in the tram, at work, at the mall, to be bombed with messages from men on social networks…But know that this kind of “hook-ups” will not help you get married! Or anyway, there’s nothing serious or long-term going to happen.

4. You’re self-centered

If you are over 30 (ish) and not in a stable relationship, it’s time you started analyzing the fact that you put too much stress on your own self. The way you look, your habits, your clothes and your dear shoes. Or, as it depends, on your career, which you made a zero priority without being aware of it. And, from time to time, you start thinking that if you hooked up with a wealthy guy, all your “worries” would simply disappear.

5. You’re not good enough or not “how you should” be

But in the end, how “should” an appropriate (not to call it perfect) partner be? There’s something like that in each of us, however, we must be aware of our qualities, know our advantages and use them when needed. Women who do not know their value cannot be (or expect to be) cherished. So put this in your head: you are perfect just the way you are! And if, at some point, there are small “minuses”, maybe all you need to find yourself is HIM....

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